Some people decide to live together first to see is they are able to adapt to each other’s quirky ways, however this is not always accepted by the elders neither is it condoned or encouraged. For whatever reason an individual decides to take on the journey of marriage, it should be done with caution and preparation to ensure a higher possibility of success.
Trying to contribute equally to the marriage arrangement or relationship is important as both parties should understand that there is a part for each person within the marriage platform that should be taken seriously and without reservation.
The equality factor will greatly help to determine the commitment levels each individual is willing to contribute to the relationship in order to make sure it has a fighting chance of survival.
There are many ways to ensure both parties stay participative in the marriage arrangement and this would include being able to share all things, communicating well, being understanding and sensitive to each other’s feelings and needs and many other positive contributing elements that will benefit the strength of the relationship.
Sometimes when things don’t go as well as intended, there may be a need to seek outside help to get things back on the positive track. This help may include to assistance of a councilor, a marriage therapist or any other notable person whose main function is to get the couple back into the mode where some positive progress can be made.
Sex is also another important part of a successful marriage, and couple should understand the need to ensure this part of the marriage get the adequate amount of attention it needs.