Most people have some idea of what they want they future partner to be like and subconsciously seek such a person out during the course of the dating game.
What Do You See
Not all people succeed in finding the exact match and sometimes tend to settle for the next best available option.
However with a mental image firmly in place, the individual will be able to make a concerted effort in the right direction and will probably be in a better position to make a good pick. The following are some of the elements that should ideally make up the demeanor of the ideal mate:
Maturity – this is of course a very important element to posses, as mature individuals tend to make more stable mates and are definitely more reliable and experienced in handling the various complications within a relationship. This will further benefit in many ways, if the relationship eventually evolves into marriage and having kids.
Openness – being open is another good quality to look for in a mate. The ability to be impartial and open about any and all things will give both parties to option to explore various issues without the threat of getting into an argument or even worse affecting the relationship negatively.
Honestly and integrity – are ideal traits to possess as these too will have a positive impact on the relationship.
This is especially useful when faced with painful decisions or situations where honesty and integrity will allow the situation to be resolved in the best possible way while decreasing any impact of negativity with the said decision made.
Affectionate – for some people this is a very natural disposition to have and express, while for other it may be something of a challenge to express themselves or receive affection without being uncomfortable in some way or another.
What are some of things you look for in a mate that’s right for you?