Did you know that the relationship itself is not the problem, but the people who are in the relationship? This is the reason why you have to figure out what’s wrong in you and change it. This way, you will be able to save your relationship that is on the verge of falling down.
Changing yourself is a self-help process. Thus, it is something which others can’t do for you. It is more of a choice, decision and hard work. However, this is not something that you can do over night; it requires time, patience and temperance. To achieve this, you need to come to terms with yourself and admit your mistakes. To put it simply, you need to forget about your pride by sending it to hell.
Changing yourself is such a difficult process, as you have to think a hundred times before you make any moves. Thus, you will feel like you are confined in a cage because you are afraid that you might do the same mistakes again. Mind you, this should not be the case. Just like other processes, changing yourself is something that must be done one step at a time. Don’t force yourself because it could lead to self-destruction.
In your attempt to change yourself, you can also ask for help from the people who love you such as your friends, family or partner. Though they can’t change you, they can help you. Love moves in mysterious ways, as they say. Also, don’t forget to pray because it is the best tool that will help you dramatically transform your entire being. In addition, don’t forget that the only one who can heal your heart is the one who made it.
What is one thing you can work on changing in yourself to be a better you?